Heartbreaks can be devastating and can strike you sometimes and it will make you feel hopeless. It will make us non-believer of love especially after we have invested ourselves into something completely wrong. We often trust someone and abuse it and mistreat us, giving ourselves to someone who doesn’t deserve us. We should have known better and we should have been wiser but sometimes it is just too late for that. We know that there is something wrong with the person we choose but we still hope that person can change. Thinking that our love is powerful enough to turn that someone into a better person.
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We hope that he will appreciate things and think that he doesn’t need anything more than our love though that day never came. We waited and prolonged our agony only to realize that we have wasted our time that he will not change, not for you, not for anyone else. You opted to follow your heart but it directed you into a dark hole. After these devastating incidents, we tend to doubt things. Trust issues may develop along with the thoughts on how you will have a better tomorrow if there is someone who will treat you better and trust again.
You should have known that he was never going to love you the way you deserve to be loved or treat you the way you should be treated either. Warning signs have been flashed before your eyes, your friends and your family have warned you but you wanted to prove them wrong. You were blinded by the feeling that you have and disregarded all the hints given to you. He didn’t care enough to call you or exert time to meet you. All he wanted was to get something in return. That is why he acted so nice to you. He never planned to love you the way you loved him and he never truly invested in your so-called relationship.
Despite the odds there is hope for us yet. You may be hurt, and you may have suffered tremendous pain which makes you hesitant to be with someone new and, that is fine. Time will heal all wounds and you will be ready again. Ready to meet the person who is going to change your life and your perspective of love. A person who will come after the biggest mistake in your life, a person patient enough to stand by your side. A person willing to wait will give you enough space you need until you trust and love again. He will provide everything because he knows you deserve it. A loving, kind, faithful and supportive person everything you dreamed in a partner, slowly until you open up your mind and learn to fall in love again, trust again. A person who will do everything to protect you from any pain making sure that no one will harm you and who will show you that unconditional love does exist. A feeling we did not feel before. A partner who loves you for everything you are, along with your flaws and imperfections even gives you enough room for improvements. One who will never try to change anything from you because for him, you are perfect just the way you are.
So never lose hope and never think that life and love have ended. You will never know what tomorrow would bring. Your true love may just be waiting for you; you just don’t know it yet.
By Kris De Vera Estrella, IFY Books
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